How to introduce a sex doll to your lover?
The conversation about introducing something (or someone) into your and your partner’s sex life can be difficult, but it’s an absolute necessity. Since you’re together in this relationship, it’s important that such decisions are made through communication – some people are simply not comfortable with the idea, and it’s their right, as everyone has different boundaries. You cannot present someone with a fait accompli, as it definitely won’t go well, and in some cases, you might even find yourself single.
You need to prepare for it. It’s not a topic you can bring up over breakfast. We are here to help. We will treat this conversation as if it were any other conversation you would have about introducing sex dolls into your bedroom. What should you remember when introducing a sex toy to your partner or spouse? Continue reading to find out.
Don’t Forget About Timing
It’s important to know “when” you should have a discussion. We mentioned this briefly earlier. Don’t bring out your sex toy as you are about to engage in sex with your partner. This is a mistake that many people make when using other sex toys. This is only acceptable if your partner enjoys surprises and you are confident that it will not make them uncomfortable.
Tell your partner you want to speak to them. (Don’t say “we need a talk” – God only knows how nervous people can become when they hear that phrase).
Don’t be Frustrated
It’s important to remember that you shouldn’t start a conversation about your sex life by expressing frustration. You might be feeding into your partner’s insecurities if you talk negatively about them.
Try talking instead about how you can improve your sex and introduce a sex toy as an option. Sex is a team effort, so you should both strive to make your partner happy.
Don’t Force them to Have the Conversation
Do not force your partner to continue the conversation if you notice they are uncomfortable. Say that it’s okay and you can talk about this another time. You can try bringing it up after a few weeks or days.
Talk to your partner about the reasons why they feel uncomfortable, and what you can say to help. It’s often not the conversation about sex, but the stigma surrounding sex toys or sex dolls that makes them uncomfortable.
Be open
Don’t tell your partner what to do with a sex-doll or how it should look. It’s important for people to accept that there is technically someone else in the same room as them. This is especially true for those who have never experienced sex with anyone more than once.
Let them see your sex toy and let them decide what they will do with it. You never know, they might surprise you with the creativity of their ideas.
What if they reject the idea
You’ll need to ask your partner if it is okay to use your sex toy in private if they reject the idea. You might think, “Why does it matter? It’s just my sex toy,” but once you are in a committed relationship, the focus is not on you.
We have already said that different people will have different boundaries. Your partner may not feel comfortable with you using a doll, especially if it is done in secret. You shouldn’t be forced to stop enjoying something that you love. Compromises are key, so try to reach one with your partner.
If You Haven’t Got a Sex Doll…
You’re in a great position if you don’t have a sex toy yet and want to talk about it with your partner before deciding on one. You can suggest to your partner that you choose the right sex doll together. If you let your partner have a voice in the matter, they will feel more comfortable.
Choosing the Right Sex Doll can be difficult. There are so many sex dolls available today, in different sizes, shapes, and skin tones, it can be difficult to choose one. How do you make a decision that is so difficult?
How To Choose The Perfect Sex Doll
You should first consider how much money you have to spend. If you purchase a high-quality sex toy, like the ones we offer at XtouchStore, you can expect it to last for many years. It’s still important to decide how much money you want to spend on this purchase.
You should first consider how much money you have to spend. If you purchase a high-quality sex toy, like the ones we offer at XtouchStore, you can expect it to last for many years. It’s still important to decide how much money you want to spend on this purchase.
is the next thing to consider. The best sex toys are made from silicone or TPE as these materials closely resemble real skin. If you want durability, TPE will be a better choice.
Have you got any preferences for looks? You will also have to take this into consideration when choosing a sex-doll. You will find a sex doll that suits your taste, whether you want one with big boobs or a big arse, or both, black, white or Asian, young or old.
XtouchStore offers you the opportunity to customthe majority of our sex dolls. You can either choose to purchase the dolls as shown in the picture, or make changes such as choosing eye color, nipple color and size, skin tone, etc. There are also options to add sound effects, heating system or other features.
Consider carefully the features you want in your sex dolls. This is an investment and you don’t wish to choose something you’ll be bored of after a few weeks.
The Bottom Line
Some conversation topics can be hard to begin. One of these is the introduction of sex toys into your sex life and that with your partner. Although we can’t guarantee that everything will work out, we will make it easier by following our tips.
You cannot decide for your partner. Remember, sex is a teamwork. In such situations, communication is crucial. You won’t find out what your partner thinks about a topic until you speak to them. Good luck!